Your Child Has Been Turned Against You. But You're NOT Powerless.
Your child is rejecting you and it's NOT your fault.
You didn’t abandon them. You didn’t stop loving them.
You are not the villain...but they think you are. We need to change that.
You CAN right the wrongs.
It’s time to be SEEN, HEARD, and RESPECTED again -
not by begging, not by chasing,
but by becoming the one they can’t ignore.
You are the lighthouse.
You hold the real story—and now, you’ll learn how to share it.
Standing in truth, strong and ready…
for them to finally see the real you again.
You’ll learn directly from someone who lived it - Ryan Thomas, an adult child of alienation who rejected his Dad for decades until seeing the truth and reconnecting in his late 20's.
Now, Ryan helps parents in over 25 countries save the relationship with their children. You'll also have team support with Jen, your Emotion & Mindset Coach, helping you process the pain, find your confidence and self-worth again, and become the grounded, dignified parent your child needs.
Be the Lighthouse for Your Child & Reclaim the Truth.
By the end of this program, you’ll have:
🚀 A personalized path based on your child’s specific situation - so you always know your next step
🚀 Exact words that reveal the truth - without triggering resistance or pushing them away
🚀 Emotional support and mindset tools that keep you grounded—no matter how deep the silence
🚀 The confidence, clarity, and dignity to be seen, heard, and respected again
This is about standing in your truth - calm, ready, and unshakable.
Because even if your child isn’t ready today…
YOU will be.
You'll discover how to...
Counteract the Lies & Manipulation: Discover how you can show your child the truth of what’s really going on, so they can see you are a loving parent.
Access Your Child Even if Blocked: Learn proven strategies to get messages and gifts to your children even if you've been blocked or everything is intercepted or monitored.
Know Exactly What To Say: Know how to crack the code to reach your child and know what they need to hear to let their walls of rejection come crashing down with your new vocabulary.
Make the Alienator Powerless: Learn strategies to control your emotions and overcome gaslighting, and have your own plan to follow to change your child’s mind about you.
Create Lightbulb Moments: Show your child who you really are and surprise them by being completely different than the person they think you are
Make it Easy For Them To Let You Back In: Learn the exact phrases to use so they can “forgive you” and give you a second change without feeling disloyal or guilty.
Master Difficult Dialogues: Gain the expertise to address the tough, often unspoken issues that have led to years of separation or misunderstanding, whether it’s the divorce, parental alienation, or deeply rooted emotional pain.
Reestablish Trust and Reliability: In the eyes of a child who has shut you out, you might be the last person they'd turn to. Learn how to slowly reestablish yourself as a trustworthy and reliable figure in their life—even if that means starting with baby steps.
Create a Safe Space: When rejection is severe, your child might see your home as a place they do not want to go. Learn how to turn that around, creating an atmosphere that your child—no matter their age—can eventually see as a safe and loving space.
Restore Your Own Inner Peace: No longer live in a state of constant worry or guilt about your relationship with your child; instead, enjoy the peace that comes with knowing you're taking the right steps.
Overcome Alienation and Rejection: Break down the fortified barriers that have kept you out of your child's life for so long. Whether these walls were erected by misunderstandings, your e
Support and Guidance on...
✅ Understand exactly what’s happening inside your child’s mind - so you can say what they need to hear to lower their defenses and open the door.
✅ Creating a step-by-step plan that gives you confidence and clarity - so you’re never stuck wondering what to do next.
✅ Knowing exactly what to say, word-for-word, to start softening the walls between you—without triggering more resistance or setbacks.
✅ Taking the right actions that shift how your child sees you—and help them remember the real you: loving, safe, and steady.
✅ Use proven strategies that support both your current reality and the changes that may come—so you're ready at every stage of your relationship’s evolution.
Real-Life Experience
I was the child who rejected a parent.
I can help you unlock the words they need to hear… just like I did with my dad.
Because after decades apart, I didn’t come back because someone told me to.
I came back because something finally got through.
You Get Access To:
8 Weeks
of Step-by-Step Video Lessons to reconnect with your child.
8 Weeks
of Weekly Mindset & Emotion video training to help you heal from the pain and turmoil.
30+
Customizable Scripts and tactics on what to say and do, even if you're blocked or ignored.
30+ Hours
of Video Training to help you guide you and your child.
8 Months
of Long-Term Support with On-Demand "Momentum Sessions"
4 Weeks
of Bonus Trainings to Keep Your Progress Going.
Your Core Program Includes:
6 Step-by-Step Modules
Learn directly from someone who has already lived what your child is feeling. These modules give you practical strategies, a proven roadmap to shift the dynamic, rebuild the bond, and change the way your child sees you - without pushing, pleading, or over explaining. Each module tackles a key part of the parent-child dynamic with real-life examples and actionable steps you can start using immediately. (Lifetime access included.)
Communication Training
Discover the exact words that will break through emotional walls, help your child see the truth about you, and change their mind. Whether its been 6 months of 6+ years, you'll know what to say to reset the relationship and shock them into thinking about giving you a second chance. Includes ready-to-use scripts, templates, and outlines you can customize to fit your situation.
Emotional Mastery Training
In addition to Ryan’s coaching, you’ll receive expert emotional support from Jen, our dedicated mindset and emotion coach. Jen’s training helps you overcome stress, fear, and self-doubt so you can approach every interaction with confidence. She’ll guide you through the turmoil and upheaval of your life, helping you regain control of your emotions and stay strong when it matters most.
Scripts, Templates, Messages
Message Library, Scripts and Templates with word-for-word examples, customizable scripts, and plug-and-play messages tailored to your situation — so you’re never stuck on what to say.
Long-Term Support: 8 Monthly On-Demand Momentum Sessions
Stay supported after the core program with 8 monthly on-demand Momentum Sessions from Ryan and Jen. These sessions provide fresh insights, advanced strategies, and emotional guidance to help you maintain progress, stay motivated, and navigate new challenges as they arise—so you’re never left wondering, “What now?
[BONUS] GTB: EVOLVE – 4 Weeks of Additional Training
After completing the 8-week core program, continue your growth with 4 weeks of additional training. GTB: THRIVE helps you continue your progress and apply advanced strategies as your efforts continue.
[BONUS] No-Contact Strategies If You Live Near Your Child
What if you live in close proximity to your child but you're cut off with no-contact? This video library gives you tactics you can use to make contact, get communication and gifts to your child - in a stealth way, without the alienator knowing it.
[BONUS] Barrier Busting Strategies if Your Blocked
BLOCKED on Email or Phone? Is everything intercepted by the alienator? You get a library of step-by-step tactics on how to make contact, send gifts and messages, and get connected, even if you’ve been blocked, ignored or intercepted.
[BONUS] Alienated Mind: Parental Alienation Explained
An in-depth training course on how your child's mind is manipulated, why they believe lies, and everything you need to know about alienation, from a child who survived it.
[BONUS] 10 Irresistible Questions to Unlock Your Child
These 10 carefully crafted prompts are designed to disarm defensiveness, spark meaningful connection, and help your child reveal what they’re really thinking and feeling. You'll learn how to ask in a way that feels safe, supported, and impossible to ignore—even if your child has cut you out.
Lifetime Access
You get Lifetime Access to the training content in the program. So you can go at your own pace and revisit the training anytime you want, 24/7 for life. So, you're not just investing in a solution for now—you're securing a resource for the future challenges you might face.
Summary of Everything You Will Receive:
- 12 Weeks + 2 Coaches
- 8 Weeks of Step-by-Step Video Communication & Strategy Training from Ryan
- 8 Weeks of Emotional Mastery Video Training from Jen
- Scripts, Templates, Messages
- Momentum Sessions w/Ryan & Jen (8 Months On-Demand Sessions)
-[BONUS] GTB: THRIVE - 4 Weeks of Additional Training
-[BONUS] No-Contact Strategies If You Live Near Your Child
-[BONUS] Barrier Busting Strategies if Your Blocked
-[BONUS] Alienated Mind: Parental Alienation Explained
-[BONUS] 10 Irresistible Questions to Unlock Your Child
- 24/7 Lifetime Access
Enroll Today & Get Instant Access!
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I feel very grateful on a daily basis for the program and for the investment I've made. So I'm very grateful for the breakthroughs I've made in parts of my life that I didn't even anticipate before I signed up.
- Lee
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About Founder Ryan Thomas
Ryan is an expert in helping parents reconnect with their children, having worked with parents, families, and professionals in over 25 countries. He shows parents exactly what to say and do to rebuild their relationships and get their children back.
With over two decades of experience in communication, conflict resolution, and crisis management, Ryan is also trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), solutions-based counseling, and resiliency coaching. His “secret weapon” is the unique ability to get inside the mind of a child who rejects a parent, predicting exactly what that child needs to hear to open the door to reconnection.
This insight comes from Ryan’s own real-life experience—having rejected a parent for over 20 years, he now uses that personal journey to give parents a rare, behind-the-scenes perspective on how to heal and rebuild relationships.
Ryan’s work has been featured in US News & World Report, Entrepreneur Magazine, ABC, MSNBC, FOX, iHeart Radio and more. He has worked with influential leaders and globally recognized brands, including First Lady Michelle Obama, The White House, Academy Award-winning actor Martin Sheen, Matthew Perry, Lockheed Martin, Best Buy Mobile, American Heart Association, and the Make-A-Wish Foundation.
He is the founder of the “Get Them Back” and "Divorce NOT Damage" coaching programs and the author of the acclaimed book, SABOTAGED! The Weapons of Parental Alienation.
About Emotion Coach Jen
Jen is a performance and mindset coach, best-selling author, and speaker who has worked with executives, Olympians, and high performers across 7 countries. She’s been featured on CBS, CW, TalentCulture, Project Happiness, FierceCEO, and iHeartRadio, and has helped individuals from Microsoft, the NFL, the Lady Gaga Tour, Broadway Performers, The Kennedy Center, and National Geographic.
Jen is the founder of the Life Beyond Hurt Program and brings over 20 years of expertise in mind-body wellness, psychology, neurology, and health. She holds a Doctor of Chiropractic degree and a Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology from the University of Wisconsin.
Her academic background includes serving as a Research Fellow in Motivational Psychology, specializing in intrinsic motivation and high performance. She has also completed post-doctorate training in Modern Applied Psychology, Positive Psychology Coaching, Resilience Practice, NLP Master Practitioner, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
As a multi-time best-selling author, Jen’s books have earned recognition in Organizational Change and Sports Coaching, as well as #1 New Releases in Stress Management, Mid-Life Management, and Personal Success.
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