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There is someone who knows exactly what your child needs to hear.
For 6 months, he will be in your corner.
Ryan will know your name.
Your child's name.
Your situation.
And exactly what to do.
"After 11 and a half years of silence, I got another reply! I am dumbfounded. We are now talking 45-60 minutes DAILY! Everyday is Christmas to me. Thank you."
— Scott, Dad
The counterintuitive truth
Every expert tells you to be patient. To wait for the courts. To wait until they're older. Ryan will tell you what to say right now.
Not because he studied it. Because he was the child who rejected a loving parent for over 20 years — and came back. He knows what your child is thinking right now. He knows what they need to hear. And he knows what you've been doing that's accidentally making it worse.
What you've been told
Give it time. Wait for the courts. They'll come around when they're older.
What actually moves the needle
Knowing exactly what to say — and what your child actually needs to hear right now.
What you've been told
Therapy. Lawyers. Court orders. Explaining yourself.
What actually moves the needle
Guidance from the only person who was actually inside the alienation — and found his way back.
"OMG Ryan IT WORKED. My daughter messaged me back saying she has been waiting 8 years to hear this. After 3 weeks of silence — I can't believe this. Thank you from the bottom of my heart."
— Karen
Ryan will read what your child says to you. Tell you what it ACTUALLY means. And tell you exactly what to say back.
Even silence has a response. Ryan knows what it is.
This is six months of working directly with Ryan — and a complete system you can move through at your own pace, learn from immediately, and use the same day.
You don't have to figure this out alone.
What Ryan's mentorship includes
The Get Them Back framework
8 stages of strategy, communication training, and 30+ customizable scripts — built entirely from Ryan's lived experience inside the alienation. What to say, what not to say, how to read your child's behavior, how to reach them even if you're blocked. Move through it at your own pace, use what you learn the same day. Lifetime access.
The deep dive coaching call
Once a month Ryan goes deep — live on Zoom with a small group of parents — coaching real situations in real time. You'll hear Ryan decode other parents' situations, rewrite their communication, and reveal what their child's words actually mean. Submit your question in advance and Ryan may coach your situation directly on the call. Every session is recorded so you never miss a thing.
Your monthly private response
Once a month you submit your single most important message, situation, or script. Ryan responds privately — just for you — with a personal audio message and/or written guidance tailored specifically to your child and your situation. This is private coaching delivered directly to you. Your words. Your child. Ryan's full attention on it.
Jen's coaching layer
The right words only work when you're calm enough to say them. When you're emotionally exhausted, you make mistakes. Jen makes sure you don't. As your emotion and mindset coach, she works with you on the inside so Ryan's strategy works on the outside. Jen is also Ryan's wife — which means this isn't just a professional partnership. It's two people who are personally invested in your outcome.
The 8 Stages
Built entirely from Ryan's lived experience inside the alienation. Each stage gives you something you can use immediately — not someday.
Stage 1
Creating Your Secret Advantage
You have something no therapist, lawyer, or counselor has — a bond with your child that was formed before any of this started. You'll learn what your child actually craves, what only you can give them, and how to use that unbreakable connection as your greatest strategic advantage.
Stage 2
Reinvent Your Communication
The way you've been communicating — however well-intentioned — has likely been working against you. You'll discover exactly what to say, how to say it, and what to stop saying immediately. You'll leave this stage with a completely new communication approach your child won't be able to dismiss.
Stage 3
Overcome the Brainwashing
There is a story being told about you every day — and it's beating you. You'll learn how to interrupt that story, create pattern breaks in your child's thinking, and pre-frame every interaction so you're no longer walking into a situation the other parent has already set up against you.
Stage 4
Attracting Your Child to You
Chasing, pleading, and explaining have the opposite effect of what you want. You'll learn what actually draws an alienated child back — and how to shift from someone they're avoiding to someone they can't stop thinking about. Attraction, not pressure. It's a completely different approach.
Stage 5
Get Your Child to Wake Up
Your child is locked in a version of reality that isn't true. You'll learn the specific questions, approaches, and communication strategies that create cracks in that reality — so your child starts thinking for themselves again. Including exactly what to do when they live with the alienator and every move feels blocked.
Stage 6
Bring the Walls Down
The walls your child has built aren't permanent — but the wrong approach makes them thicker. You'll learn how to soften resistance without triggering it, how to give your child an "excuse" to let you back in without feeling disloyal, and how to create the moments that shift everything.
Stage 7
Make the Alienator Powerless
You don't have to fight the other parent to win. You'll learn how to neutralize their influence without a single confrontation — so their tactics stop working, their narrative loses its grip, and your child starts to see the situation clearly. Control without conflict.
Stage 8
Gain Influence & Trust
This is where everything comes together. You'll know how to use metaphors, memories, and meaningful moments to rebuild trust at a pace your child can accept. How to show up at the right moments. How to write the message, send the gift, attend the event — and have it land the way it was intended. By the end of this stage you are not waiting for your child. You are ready for them.
Show them who you actually are.
You are not the villain. You never were.
Your child just can't see the real you yet.
That's exactly what this changes.
"As I type this now, she's sleeping in her bed in our home after a lovely dinner and movie on the couch together. The last time she was in my home was a year and a half ago. Love to you, Ryan and Jen."
— Anne, Mom
"I can't thank you enough for helping us reconnect with our son and 2 grandchildren after 5 years. You have forever changed our family. We are babysitting this weekend. Can't believe it."
— Carolyn
"After not seeing her for nearly 2 months, I sent a message following your template. Within 5 hours I received a message back that she wants to see me. I can't believe this."
— Kinzi
"This program has been a game changer for me. The healing that I've experienced and continue to experience has been MONUMENTAL. I cannot imagine who or where I'd be without you both."
— Loralee, Mom
"He had been calling me stupid for months. I used your new strategy and he finally stopped. He actually said 'please' and 'mommy' the other day. We were able to sit and have dessert together. He even bought me an ice cream."
— Michelle
"I've been making excellent breakthroughs. It is the first time in 5 years that she reaches out first to tell me how she is doing. We went from 2-3 text messages per month to about 3-5 per week."
— Sarah, Mom
This is for you if
You've tried everything and nothing has moved the needle
You don't know what to say — or you're afraid the wrong words will push them further away
Your child believes things about you that aren't true and you don't know how to change that
You've been blocked, ignored, or intercepted and you're running out of ways to reach them
You want to be ready when the window opens — not still guessing what to do
About Ryan Thomas
Ryan Thomas rejected a loving parent for over 20 years. He knows what your child is thinking — not because he studied it, but because he lived it. He reconnected in his late 20s and has since worked with parents in over 25 countries.
His work has been featured in US News & World Report, Entrepreneur, ABC, MSNBC, FOX, and iHeartRadio. He has worked with The White House, Microsoft, Lockheed Martin, and Best Buy. He is the author of SABOTAGED! The Weapons of Parental Alienation and Confessions of an Alienated Child.
The only coach in this space who was the alienated child — and came back.
Investment
$7,000
Or three payments of $2,667
Six months. Private Inquiry only.
Limited spots available at any time.
Private Inquiries are reviewed personally by Ryan.
You'll receive a personal audio response — not a sales call.
Common questions
Yes. Ryan is YOUR mentor. Ryan personally reviews every private inquiry, personally coaches on every live deep dive session on Zoom, and privately responds to every monthly communication review. Ryan's wife Jen supports the emotional and mindset side through her training videos in the program. There is no hand-off. When you're in Ryan's mentorship, you're working with Ryan.
You get immediate access to the Get Them Back system — video training, 30+ scripts, and templates — with Stage 1 unlocking right away. Each subsequent stage releases week by week over 8 weeks so you're never overwhelmed. Once a month you join Ryan's live deep dive call on Zoom — the schedule is posted a month in advance so you can plan. You can join live and speak with Ryan face to face, submit your question in advance for Ryan to coach directly, and listen to other parents' situations being coached in real time. All sessions are recorded so you never miss a thing. Separately, once a month you submit your single most important message or situation and Ryan responds privately — just for you — with audio and/or written guidance specifically tailored to your child and your situation. This is private coaching delivered directly to you, not shared with anyone else in the program.
Ryan works with parents across every stage and severity of alienation — from children as young as 5 to adult children who now have children of their own that the parent is also cut off from. If there is an active court case, Ryan's work runs alongside your legal proceedings — focusing on the communication and relationship side while your attorney handles your legal rights. The private inquiry exists specifically to understand your situation. If Ryan believes he can genuinely help you, you'll be accepted.
Ryan personally reviews your private inquiry. If accepted — meaning your situation is one Ryan is confident he can help with — you'll receive an email with a personal audio message from Ryan himself, recorded specifically based on your situation, with his thoughts and next steps. No generic response. No sales call. Just Ryan's voice, speaking directly to where you are. From there you'll receive a secure link to complete your enrollment at whichever payment option works best for you, and you get immediate access to Stage 1 and the foundational training.
If you're ready to stop replaying the same situations in your head, second-guessing every word, and feeling paralyzed about what to do next — you're ready. This is for the parent who is done spinning and ready to absorb the right guidance, use the right words, and finally move with clarity and confidence. You don't need to have it all figured out. You just need to be ready to do things differently than you have been.
*Individual results vary. These are real parent experiences — your results may differ.
Disclaimer
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